i have found myself in an interesting position of old mom to young kids. all my friends with teenagers have the free time to become body builders (true story. this is a real trend), but i have these two babies. so, i have some young moms who have become my dear amigas. they do not know quite what to make of me, but they love me enough to indulge me my birthday wish of seeing lauryn hill. it was brilliant. ms. hill is a talented woman. and she is still a year older then me with one more kid then me. she wins.