The two older kids have mended their friendship after that very rocky year they had in Utah. A large part of it is that Charly has given up on relentless mothering of Deven and just loves him more. Her personality has changed as she has grown up. I see a professionalism, strength and peace. Watching her work when we were in New York together added to my level of peace in her existence, because I worry about her endlessly in her industry; as well as her safety as she travels alone to far away places. I adore Charly and am so very proud of all she is as a human.